Reader Question: I Can’t Pay My Bills! What Bills Should I Pay First?
By Jeremy on Aug 28, 2007 with Comments 38
When times are tough and you can’t find the money to pay all of your expenses, where do you turn and how do you decide who gets paid? Of course, in a perfect world we would all have sufficient emergency funds to cover these types of situations, but many people are faced with this question every month and don’t have the money saved up. While you may incur late charges or possible dings to your credit score, there are priorities you can set to ease the pain as much as possible.
1. Housing comes first. This is especially true if you own a home. Your mortgage payment should be at the top of the food chain. Your home provides shelter, it is one of your greatest assets, and it is a great mark to have on-time mortgage payment history on your credit report. Above all, make sure you are making those payments. It wouldn’t make sense to go into default because that cell phone bill you just paid required your mortgage to be paid late. Your housing expenses should also include any insurance, which may be part of your mortgage payment anyway. If not, it should be a top priority as well.
2. Don’t forget taxes. I’m not just talking about Uncle Sam, but this includes property taxes as well. If you are employed, chances are you are already paying taxes on a regular basis, but if you are under-withholding you could be faced with a steep tax bill at the end of the year. Your best bet is to have the right amount taken out of each pay check, but if that isn’t possible or you find yourself owing taxes, don’t delay in filing or paying. The same thing goes for property taxes. Failure to pay can put a lien on your home.
The penalties are stiff, and the IRS has no problem garnishing your wages or taking property to get their money. The good news, at least with the IRS is that they do have options available to assist when you can’t pay your taxes. Using an installment plan or reaching an agreement with them should be a last resort, but they are options.
3. You better make those car payments. The next item in line, especially if you require it to get to work every day, is your auto loan payments. Again, this is a secured loan, which means if you fail to make payments on time, not only can it affect your credit, but they can recover the property. Losing your primary means of transportation could cost you your job if you don’t have an alternative. Without a job, you’ll never be able to pay the bills. If being unable to pay your bills is a recurring theme, this is one of the first places to look at cutting costs by finding a cheaper vehicle. Auto insurance should be lumped in with any loan payments and considered just as important.
4. Begin looking at credit cards. Once you have secured your essential payments for your housing, tax obligations and transportation, you can begin looking at paying those credit card bills. Obviously, you want to stay current with these so you can keep your credit report clean, interest rates low, and avoid late fees. Don’t jeopardize your home or other things listed above just to try and avoid a late fee or negative mark on your credit score.
If you do have money left over to put toward credit card bills, pay at least the minimum. If it takes minimum payments on 4 different cards just to make all of the payments, then do that. It is better to only pay the minimum and keep the account current than to try and pay more and end up short on another card and have a late fee tacked on.
If you don’t even have enough money to make the minimum payments on all of the cards, you have to prioritize. First, realize that if you can’t make the payments, you’re going to be late and there are consequences. The best you can do is try and limit the negative impact. First, check to see if there are any grace periods on any of your cards. You may be able to squeeze a few extra days until payday and still avoid a late payment. If that is of no use, you’re probably going to want to look at the card with the highest balance. The reason is that if you’re late, they are likely to increase your interest rate. 29.99% on a $5,000 balance hurts a lot more than 29.99% on an $800 balance.
Finally, remember that late payments typically aren’t reported to credit bureaus until they are over 30 days past due. You may still have a late fee or a change in interest rates, but if you’re a few weeks late you’ll probably still keep that credit report free of a late payment mark. And, if it is your first late payment with that issuer, a phone call may actually get the fee removed or the rate dropped back down. Unfortunately, if you make this a habit, don’t expect any relief.
5. Utilities are often the last resort. You may think that keeping the lights on would be a top priority, but in reality you have the most latitude in making payments compared to the rest of the things on this list. First, many utilities are optional and aren’t a necessity to life. Things like the cable and telephone are good examples. If you fail to make your cable payment, they shut it off and possibly report it to the credit bureaus. Losing cable is better than losing a home or having your wages garnished.
When it comes to the more important utilities, such as electricity, sewer, water, or gas, you will want to try and make these payments, but doing so late might not be as bad as being late on a credit card. Most electric or gas companies have very low late fees, and in some cases it may just be a couple dollars. On top of that, it generally takes an extended period of being late before service is actually shut off. The best thing to do if you find you are unable to pay the electric or gas is to call your provider and explain the hardship. Most offer assistance or special payment plans for those in financial need.
When it comes to something such as sewer, you may actually have to place more importance on that bill. In some places, being late on your sewer bill could eventually result in a lien on your property, so be sure to check and see if that applies. But with most utilities you’ll pay lower late fees than you would on a credit card and they are much more flexible when it comes to being unable to make payments, so most utilities should be one of the last items to pay.
Final Thoughts
As always, you should be trying to make all of your payments on time and in full, and this shouldn’t imply that it is good practice to make late payments, but the reality is that there are times when that just isn’t possible and you have to make the best of it. Also, keep in mind that these are just general guidelines. If your situation involves alimony or child support payments or such, these could take priority given the legal implications, so you have to analyze your situation carefully.
In the end, if being unable to pay your bills is becoming a regular habit, it is time to sit down and think about why this is and make some changes. The occasional emergency happens, but when it happens every month and every year, you need to really take a look at your situation to get out of that rut.
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Where do you turn for help? My income for the last year was just a little over 19 thousand not a lot of money to live on, much less pay bills. I was told the Catholics would help me, I wrote them several times, they never responded. When I got sick and ran up a hospital bill, I was told to contact Medicade since I was already 63, they said they could not help I made to much money???
My daughter has fallen on hard times and she just found out that her water utilities have been shut off is this legal? she has three children under age eight years old the youngest is not even two
(I will pay her bill) Pleas just let me know if this is legal especially having such youn children.
Thank You.
I believe that since each one of us has a unique situation, we will also have a different order of priorities so just be practical when deciding the most important bills to pay. I read some very good ideas on this site already. There are some things you can be flexible on and that one is food. Depending on where you live, search out food pantries at churches to go everyweek. Stretch the food and use creative dishes to do this. It works. I do it. The electicity bill also can be controlled with not having lights on when you don’t need them, unplugging the tv, computer, appliances etc at night because they take up juice even when not on. Choose between a cell phone or a house phone. If you can’t pay your credit cards and the interest keeps building…go to a nonprofit credit counseling group that will act as the middle man to talk to the creditors, get your interest rate significantly down, and you end up paying one monthly payment that the group disperses a little of it to each creditor. I did that for four years and finally I was debtfree. I had to give up my car when the lease was over because I had to face it that I could no longer afford it. If I am late with my payments now, I call and sometimes they waive the fee. I use a bus to get groceries, go to doctor etc. If you have children that are old enough to work, they need to contribute financially to the household, it is only fair and necessary to avoid losing a roof over your head. If you have a house with an extra room or apt., you may have to think about finding some one to rent to (be careful). If you own a house, you may have to sell to avoid losing it altogether. If you have any valuables that you can get rid of, place ads up to sell them for extra money. Go to your local church for help, social services, St. Vincent De Paul, Salvation Army, United Way…There are some resources out there but you have to start making calls or looking on the internet for help. Please do not get sucked into people claiming they can loan you money…I would first check them out to see if they are even legitimate! Is there something extra you can be doing to make money..do you have a special talent, skill, creativity? Think outside the box….I myself are in a situation again, because I am now disabled and my income is no longer what it was, I am finding it more difficult to keep my head above water, so I may eventually have to sell my home, though it needs some repair first which is difficult to get done with little to no cash. Times are hard, so do the best you can, think creatively, perservere whatever the circumstance. If we lose all our possessions of course it isn’t a happy situation, but we must move forward anyway, to make a new start somewhere else. You are not alone, so many of us are hurting. Stay connected to share. Good Luck you all.
Ok, im stable right now. but if it were to ever come to it. my first priority is my car, because without it I would end up losing my job. which will result in me losing my home and everything else. I would just live with a friend while i plan something out for the time being. This makes sense, if i put house, utilities first, i would lose my car and everything goes with that a month later. Glad im good though, good luck to the rest.